Gradual changes: You could be attracted to people of all genders for a time, then after several weeks or months, notice your attraction focuses on just one gender.
Fluctuating attraction levels: You might experience periods with little or no sexual attraction—
sometimes called asexual feelings—and then months later, find your attraction returns, possibly toward different genders.
Long-term evolution: You might identify as a straight man for years, and later recognize developing attraction toward other men, adding new dimensions to your identity.
These examples are just a few possibilities. There isn’t a “one-size-fits-all” experience when it comes to abrosexuality, which is part of what makes this identity so personal and unique.“We’re all discovering new things about ourselves constantly—that’s part of growth,” Flint writes.
